“Life’s Lessons By Byron Wien”Larry Doyleupdated Mar 05, 2013TweetAt GET.com we maintain complete editorial integrity on our content & provide transparent & unbiased information. Companies don't pay us to include their products although we receive a compensation when you successfully apply to products from our partners. See how we make money here.At GET.com we maintain complete editorial integrity. Let’s take a break from our daily navigation of the economic landscape and transition to a far larger and more important path, that is, the path designated as “life.” There is no other pursuit I derive greater personal enjoyment from than the mentoring of young professionals. I think back to the multitude of people in my life who gave of their time and wisdom to help me along the way as I navigated my own career. I would not trade those relationships for anything. In similar fashion, I treasure the relationships I am developing with current young professionals as they begin and continue to navigate their own career paths. To that end, I welcome sharing a memo that recently crossed my desk from one of Wall Street’s most highly respected investors, Byron Wein. I believe the wisdom provided by Wein is well worth the two minutes it might take to read his thoughts. I think so highly of Wein’s commentary that I will be linking to it in my Career Planning/Mentoring Must Reads. I hope you may care to share Wien’s thoughts with others as I think there are real lessons her for all of us.Life’s LessonsFebruary 2013 I was scheduled to speak about the world outlook at an investment conference recently and shortly before my time slot the conference organizer said the audience was more interested in what I had learned over the course of my career than what I had to say about the market. I jotted a few notes down and later expanded and edited what I said that day. I have since been encouraged to share my thoughts with a broader audience. Here are some of the lessons I have learned in my first 80 years. I hope to continue to practice them in the next 80. 1. Concentrate on finding a big idea that will make an impact on the people you want to influence. The Ten Surprises, which I started doing in 1986, has been a defining product. People all over the world are aware of it and identify me with it. What they seem to like about it is that I put myself at risk by going on record with these events which I believe are probable and hold myself accountable at year-end. If you want to be successful and live a long, stimulating life, keep yourself at risk intellectually all the time. 2. Network intensely. Luck plays a big role in life and there is no better way to increase your luck than by knowing as many people as possible. Nurture your network by sending articles, books and emails to people to show you’re thinking about them. Write op-eds and thought pieces for major publications. Organize discussion groups to bring your thoughtful friends together. 3. When you meet someone new, treat that person as a friend. Assume he or she is a winner and will become a positive force in your life. Most people wait for others to prove their value. Give them the benefit of the doubt from the start. Occasionally you will be disappointed, but your network will broaden rapidly if you follow this path. 4. Read all the time. Don’t just do it because you’re curious about something, read actively. Have a point of view before you start a book or article and see if what you think is confirmed or refuted by the author. If you do that, you will read faster and comprehend more. 5. Get enough sleep. Seven hours will do until you’re sixty, eight from sixty to seventy, nine thereafter, which might include eight hours at night and a one-hour afternoon nap. 6. Evolve. Try to think of your life in phases so you can avoid a burn-out. Do the numbers crunching in the early phase of your career. Try developing concepts later on. Stay at risk throughout the process. 7. Travel extensively. Try to get everywhere before you wear out. Attempt to meet local interesting people where you travel and keep in contact with them throughout your life. See them when you return to a place. 8. When meeting someone new, try to find out what formative experience occurred in their lives before they were seventeen. It is my belief that some important event in everyone’s youth has an influence on everything that occurs afterwards. 9. On philanthropy my approach is to try to relieve pain rather than spread joy. Music, theatre and art museums have many affluent supporters, give the best parties and can add to your social luster in a community. They don’t need you. Social service, hospitals and educational institutions can make the world a better place and help the disadvantaged make their way toward the American dream. 10. Younger people are naturally insecure and tend to overplay their accomplishments. Most people don’t become comfortable with who they are until they’re in their 40’s. By that time they can underplay their achievements and become a nicer, more likable person. Try to get to that point as soon as you can. 11. Take the time to give those who work for you a pat on the back when they do good work. Most people are so focused on the next challenge that they fail to thank the people who support them. It is important to do this. It motivates and inspires people and encourages them to perform at a higher level. 12. When someone extends a kindness to you write them a handwritten note, not an e-mail. Handwritten notes make an impact and are not quickly forgotten. 13. At the beginning of every year think of ways you can do your job better than you have ever done it before. Write them down and look at what you have set out for yourself when the year is over. 14. Never retire. If you work forever, you can live forever. I know there is an abundance of biological evidence against this theory, but I’m going with it anyway. I appreciate Wien’s 80 years of wisdom and hope you might as well. What are those “tricks of the trade,” pearls of wisdom, or life’s little lessons that have helped you as you have navigated your own life’s path? I hope readers might care to share one item so we all may benefit in the process. Thank you Byron and thank you readers. Navigate accordingly.Larry DoyleIsn’t it time or overtime to subscribe to all my work via e-mail, an RSS feed, on Twitter or Facebook. 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