If you're talking seriously durable, it doesn't get more so than this. Made of die-cast magnesium casing and is dust and water resistant. The screen is viewable from outside and weighs in at less than 4 pounds. There are some that are more durable than this and have been drop tested but some are military tested and approved making them weight similar to that of a laptop (6-8 pounds). I'm not sure it's exactly what you might want to consider, it's certainly not thin like an iPad, but definitely durable.
If you're really serious about this you could even consider Panasonic's Toughbook tablet.... but it's kind of a tank! Probably unnecessary, but not a bad looking tablet. It has an Atom 1.86GHz Z450 processor, a 64gb solid state drive and a 10.4-inch touchscreen, plus a battery life of about 6 hours. Not the best, but certainly durable. Although, I do have to say that Gorilla Glass on the Eee Pad loks pretty good, too.
I would think the screen is the most important aspect of the "durability rating" here. The Eee Pad Prime uses Corning Gorilla Glass for its screen, so I think this would be the best choice for you. That stuff is tough tough tough.
Also, you mentioned that you travel a lot, well you will also be pleased to know that Eee Pad has some of the best battery life in the biz, at 8-9 hours by itself and up to 17 hours with the keyboard attached.